My Dinner 04

自从生病之后，晚餐都搞到乱七八糟。有时吃得好，有时后完全没有胃口，更有几次离谱到忘记吃晚餐@_@
昨天放工时吃了很多蛋糕饼干，结果一整个晚上都很饱。九点多，饿到不能顶了，结果翻箱倒柜终于找到了一些东西。有虾和冬粉，嗯，就来个没有瓦煲的鲜虾粉丝煲啦！
材料很简单：蒜头一瓣，辣椒干数条，蚝油，酱油，虾六尾，冬粉，再弄两条蟹柳，呵呵。
平底锅加热后倒油，下蒜头和辣椒干爆香，下虾，然后加花雕酒，酒香加上沙沙响的感觉真好。
虾差不多红熟的时侯，把蟹柳丢下锅快炒。加蚝油，酱油和适量的水，滚啊滚。。。主角来啰！冬粉下去焖一焖，吸干水份呈现透明状，ok，上桌啰！整个过程少过十分钟。
要趁热吃哟，不要看它黑黑的，好吃到。。。我自己都不好意思讲呐~~（嘻嘻）

Where are you now?

I was cleaning my mail box this morning and I found this email. Simple but meaningful.
This is a conversation between a camel mummy and camel son.

Son : Mummy, may I ask you some questions?
Mom : Sure, why son, is there something bothering you?
Son : Why do camels have humps?
Mom : Well son, we are desert animals, we need the humps to store water and we are known to survive without water.
Son : Ok, then why are our legs long and our feet rounded?
Mom : Son, obviously they are meant for walking in the desert better than anyone does.
Son : Just one more question, mummy…
Mom : Yes, dear?
Son : Ok, then why are our eyelashes long? Sometimes it bothers my sight.
Mom : My son, those long thick eyelashes are your protective cover. They help to protect your eyes from the desert sand and wind.
Son : I see. So the hump is to store water when we are in the desert, the legs are for walking through the desert and these eyelashes protect my eyes from the desert sand… but……
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Moral:
Skills, knowledge, abilities and experiences are only useful if you are at the right place!
Where are you now?

Stop! 停一下

很多时侯我们都会被环境和周围的人们影响。
影响我们的价值观，影响我们对人的感觉，影响我们对生活的要求，影响我们做的所有决定。这些大大小小的事物，在不知不觉中我们迷迷糊糊地被牵引着，丝毫察觉不到我们都慢慢在变了。
比如，从前一份McDonald汉堡薯条的满足，在什么时候变成了吃到闷了的食物？
或者，当初爱上他/她的文静，在什么时候开始嫌弃他/她的不解风情？
一味忙碌的奔跑和追求，到头来都忘了当初追求的意义。
是什么推使你在课业上前进？为了什么在这份工作上打拼？还记得当初牵起他/她的手的感动吗？那些曾经，那份勇气，编织过的梦想，在追求的道路上渐渐地被遗忘了。
今天的你，累了吗？
走回去原点后吧，一切会变得更透彻，一切都会变成简单。
爱情如是，事业如是，生活如是。
倘若你还在奔跑，停下来一下，一下下就够了。
因为这一下下足以改变你今后的路程。

How to Recruit the Right Person for the Right Job?

Another good note to share. I like the ending part. Enjoy reading.
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How to recruit the right person for the right job?
Put about 100 bricks in some particular order in a closed room with an open window.
Then send 2 or 3 candidates in the room and close the door.
Leave them alone and come back after 6 hours and then analyze the situation.

If they are counting the bricks.
Put them in the Accounts Department.

If they are recounting them.
Put them in Auditing Department.

If they have messed up the whole place with the bricks.
Put them in Engineering.

If they are arranging the bricks in some strange order.
Put them in Planning.

If they are throwing the bricks at each other.
Put them in Operation.

If they are sleeping.
Put them in Security.

If they have broken the bricks into pieces.
Put them in Information Technology.

If they are sitting idle.
Put them in Human Resources.

If they say they have tried different combinations,yet not a brick has been moved.
Put them in Sales.

If they have already left for the day.
Put them in Marketing.

If they are staring out of the window.
Put them on Strategic Planning.

And then last but not least,if they are talking to each other and not a single brick has been moved...

Congratulate them and put them in Top Management.

先生与太太的对话

收到一封email，觉得这番对话真的很一针见血，哈哈！
~姐妹们共勉之，兄弟们请三思。~
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先生：我聽說xxx有外遇，他因為跟老婆之間的感情出了問題，所以有了新女友。
太太：哇塞，你會不會也是呀。
先生：不會啦，他是跟他老婆相處有問題，我們沒有呀。
太太：這樣好了，我先跟你聊聊這些事情。
如果有一天，有漂亮的女生約你看電影，而你很想去的話，你就請她來替我們顧小孩，然後我請你去看電影。
如果你在路上看到哪個女生的穿著打扮讓你很欣賞，進而覺得你的老婆不夠漂亮的時候，你去問問她一個月的保養跟置裝預算，然後從你的薪水給我一樣的預算，我想我應該也可以辦得到。
如果你動了心，想跟她結婚的話，那我跟你兒子搬出來住，你跟她搬去跟你媽住三年（要跟我住一樣長的時間喔）。
過年過節你都跟她過，然後情人節什麼的我跟你過，祭祖拜拜她去弄，看電影郊遊什麼的我來就好。
最好她還願意顧你的兒子，這樣我們玩起來才過癮，出國渡假我還可以自費呢，反正我不用孝敬老的，還有一點餘力。
先生：那還有什麼樂趣，誰要來當我的女朋友？
太太：那就對啦！你缺的應該是個佣人來替代掉我的辛勞，讓我有時間有餘裕跟你快樂地去玩耍。當我跟公婆相處觸礁的時候，我需要的是跳開那樣的角色而不受爭議。如果能夠做到這些，我就是你一輩子的女朋友，不然就是老媽子。
先生：那萬一妳外遇勒？
太太：我告訴你喔！一輩子去伺候一家子的事情，只要一次就夠了，如果我想外遇，我也只想交男朋友，不會想結婚的。所以只要你能定期保養我，我就不會外遇了…
先生：@#＄% 我怎麼覺得我很吃虧。
太太：你現在知道做女人很吃虧了吧。

感言：看完後是否也有所感呢？
現今社會不論男女，都要為家付出，一個家的維繫真的很不容易，若只是單方面的汲汲營 營，少了讓家快樂的成份（家人的同心），家是不會溫馨的！
相信你對家的付出，是希望看到和樂健康的家人，不是物質所能換得的虛榮！
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