Wednesday, July 22, 2009

婚 vs 分

早前在网路上看见了美国佛罗里达卖“离婚蛋糕”,一开始的时侯觉得好好笑,也很逗趣,但是接下来却是一阵的心酸。这个世界是怎么了?
蛋糕的设计多样化,血腥的断头新郎,碎了的心型蛋糕,互不理睬地两夫妻,写着Free At Last的铁链型蛋糕等等;商家还推出了用棺材来“埋葬”婚戒的盒子造型,象征婚姻已死。真的很有心思吧?可是很悲哀。

有个朋友离婚了,他说因为发现无法专心投入婚姻,所以选择中断。
爱的时侯轰轰烈烈,决定走在一起后又要分开,分分合合在现今社会,已经是家常便饭了。
你可以用三分钟就喜欢上一个人,但是要了解你喜欢的人,三十年也许都不够, 更何况了解后才能接受,然后宽恕,再来配合?
婚姻绝对是场赌博,赌一赌双方的结局是什么?
有人下了注,然后后悔,输钱走人;
有人爱上赌台,拼个你死我活赖死不走;
但是要庄家闲家皆大欢喜,谈何容易?

3 comments:

sau loong said...

very creative cakes. love it but hope i don't need it. but i think the best wan is the coffin for the ring. it's a superb idea!!!


if ... if now, divorce have become a very common thing, then i think we, as the citizen of this new era, should learn to accept it. accept it like how u accept a break up in a relationship.

then once u accept it, then u should go love like u never been hurt before.just like in a normal relationship, but this time is u go get married again. hahahahah

understand wat i trying to say? to put it simple, let's just now assume marriage had already been down-grade to a normal relaionship between couples. haha....

Lw said...

Sau loong,

What are you trying to say wor??
The point is not about having the courage to fall in love again...
It concerns more on why people nowadays needs no reason to fall in love yet tons of reason surface when comes to breaking up...if breaking up has become a norm,why fall in love at the first place anyway?

Perhaps people nowadays no longer uphold eternity love...
Some may term arguments between couples as a way of growing up,yet some may loathe arguments to the extent that it leads to couples fall out of love...

A relationship will only grows if both ascend at the same pace,else the relationship is just heading nowhere...

Ah Ann said...

A marriage certificate means nothing nowadays... some ppl think registration is to safeguard the relationship... but they never know that divorcy are also that simple, maybe just to pay a little more lawyer fee than the registration cert...the world is getting crazy...

Wednesday, July 22, 2009

婚 vs 分

早前在网路上看见了美国佛罗里达卖“离婚蛋糕”,一开始的时侯觉得好好笑,也很逗趣,但是接下来却是一阵的心酸。这个世界是怎么了?
蛋糕的设计多样化,血腥的断头新郎,碎了的心型蛋糕,互不理睬地两夫妻,写着Free At Last的铁链型蛋糕等等;商家还推出了用棺材来“埋葬”婚戒的盒子造型,象征婚姻已死。真的很有心思吧?可是很悲哀。

有个朋友离婚了,他说因为发现无法专心投入婚姻,所以选择中断。
爱的时侯轰轰烈烈,决定走在一起后又要分开,分分合合在现今社会,已经是家常便饭了。
你可以用三分钟就喜欢上一个人,但是要了解你喜欢的人,三十年也许都不够, 更何况了解后才能接受,然后宽恕,再来配合?
婚姻绝对是场赌博,赌一赌双方的结局是什么?
有人下了注,然后后悔,输钱走人;
有人爱上赌台,拼个你死我活赖死不走;
但是要庄家闲家皆大欢喜,谈何容易?

3 comments:

sau loong said...

very creative cakes. love it but hope i don't need it. but i think the best wan is the coffin for the ring. it's a superb idea!!!


if ... if now, divorce have become a very common thing, then i think we, as the citizen of this new era, should learn to accept it. accept it like how u accept a break up in a relationship.

then once u accept it, then u should go love like u never been hurt before.just like in a normal relationship, but this time is u go get married again. hahahahah

understand wat i trying to say? to put it simple, let's just now assume marriage had already been down-grade to a normal relaionship between couples. haha....

Lw said...

Sau loong,

What are you trying to say wor??
The point is not about having the courage to fall in love again...
It concerns more on why people nowadays needs no reason to fall in love yet tons of reason surface when comes to breaking up...if breaking up has become a norm,why fall in love at the first place anyway?

Perhaps people nowadays no longer uphold eternity love...
Some may term arguments between couples as a way of growing up,yet some may loathe arguments to the extent that it leads to couples fall out of love...

A relationship will only grows if both ascend at the same pace,else the relationship is just heading nowhere...

Ah Ann said...

A marriage certificate means nothing nowadays... some ppl think registration is to safeguard the relationship... but they never know that divorcy are also that simple, maybe just to pay a little more lawyer fee than the registration cert...the world is getting crazy...